Giving to Yourself First: Guided Meditations for Self-Acceptance and Self-Esteem Vanzant delivers sensible advice in a no-nonsense, this-is-good-for-you style. Library Journal The most important relationship you will ever have is the relationship you have with yourself, teaches Iyanla Vanzant. Its the model for every other relationship you enter into. On Giving to Yourself First, the bestselling author of In the Meantime reminds us that in order to genuinely love others, we need to love ourselves more. Through a series of eloquent meditations, she teaches listeners how to cultivate self-acceptance and strengthen self-esteem, to allow them to better assist, support, and serve the people they love. 1 CD, 1.25 hours $15.95 ISBN 1-59179-196-0 UPC 600835-083126